Obituaries
Donald Matthew Arndt Jr.
November 14, 1940 - October 18, 2019


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VISITATION
October 24, 2019 | 4:00 to 7:00 P.M. -
Yurs Funeral Home
405 E Main Street
St. Charles, Illinois 60174 - Funeral
- October 25, 2019 | 11:00 A.M.
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St. Patrick Crane Road Catholic Church
6N491 Crane Road
St. Charles, Illinois 60175 -
Burial Location
Marmion Abbey Cemetery, Aurora, Illinois
Donald Matthew Arndt Jr., 78, St, Charles, IL died peacefully on October 18, 2019.
Don was born in Chicago on November 14, 1940. He was adopted by Donald M. and Antoinette Arndt and raised in Island Lake, IL. He graduated from Marmion Military Academy in 1958 and went on to study Aeronautical Engineering at Parks College of St. Louis University, graduating with Bachelors of Science degree. “Begin every good work with prayer so that He may bring it to completion” (Prologue, Rule of St. Benedict).
Don’s life was a testament to volunteerism and service to others. His was dedicated to the organizations and people he loved, especially Marmion Academy and Marmion Abbey, the Boy Scouts of America, and the Knights of Columbus. In 2016, Donald was honored with a Marmion Abbey Affiliate Membership for service on the Marmion Alumni Association board for over 50 years as Board Chairman and Chairman Emeritus. He also received the Marmion Alumni Centurion Award. He was a past Grand Knight of Cardinal Stritch Council #3674 in Libertyville, Il, and a recipient of numerous Boy Scouts of America adult leader awards. Don became an oblate of Marmion Abbey while attending Marmion Academy. He and his wife, Nina, are Life members of the Abbot Marmion and Canterbury Societies at Marmion Abbey. A member of St. Patrick’s Church in St. Charles since moving here in 1988, he found joy singing with the choir, culminating with their performance in the Church of the Jesu in Rome.
Donald is survived by his loving wife, Nina; his children Lucinda Caughey, Theresa Rudacille (Lee), Don Arndt (Kathy), Kirsten Arndt-Hutson (Lance), and Todd Arndt (Gina); Nina’s children Gary Lupa (Melissa), Jeremy Lupa (Justine), and Stephanie Zielinski (Matt). Don was the Beloved “Opa” of thirteen grandchildren (Don, Bernadette, Christian, Lance, Grayson, Antoinette, Elizabeth, Isabella, John, Katherine, Natalie, Mitchell and Wolfgang) and 10 step-grandchildren (Brianna, Evelyn, Connor, Clare, Jude, Madelyn, Joseph, Kylie, Alice, and Zelie.) Also survived by his former spouse, Shirley Fowler. They will always remember his insatiable curiosity, infectious sense of humor, and unquestionable faith.
Visitation will be: Thursday, October 24, 4:00-7:00 P.M. at Yurs Funeral Home, 405 E Main St, St. Charles, IL 60174. Funeral mass will be: Friday. October 25, 11:00 A.M. at St. Patrick Catholic Church, 6N491 Crane Rd, St. Charles, IL 60175. Interment will be at Marmion Abbey Cemetery 850 Butterfield Rd, Aurora, IL 60502 following the Funeral Mass.
Condolences
Jane from Wildman, IL
"Lucinda is such a sweet person and good friend. I know she got some of that from her DAD. She loved being around him."
Kathryn Mertes Egeland from Winnetka, IL
"Cousin Donny was always such a welcoming and happy person - one of our all time family favorite relatives!!! We will always remember the fun time we had at the get togethers as kids with both our large families. Can only imagine the noise we all made with the 11 of us!! I can hear his booming laugh and see his large smile as I write this. We will miss you cousin Donny and we are sorry that for all that his time her was not longer - our hearts and prayers to all of the cousins, grand cousins and Nina. -- XXOO Kathryn Mertes-Egeland and the Mertes Family"
Donna Bohr from Aurora, IL
"Sympathy and prayers Nina and family. Don was a dedicated Cadet and great person to work with."
John Powers from Grayslake, IL
"Don ‘84. We graduated together and I then had the pleasure of serving in the alumni board with your Dad in the early ‘90’s. As you know he was an amazing man. Sorry for your family’s loss and know that you will all be in our prayers. Unfortunately I will not be able to attend as I will be on east coast college visits with my twin senior boys. 🙏👼🙏"
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"We are thinking of you, Lucinda. Hugs from your Springfield friends and colleagues."