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Frank C. Wilderspin Jr.
March 25, 1935 - May 17, 2025

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Frank C. Wilderspin Jr, 90, of Elburn, formerly of St. Charles, died Saturday, May 17th, 2025, at Blackberry Pines Assisted Living in Elburn. He was born March 25, 1935 in St. Charles, IL. The son of the late Frank Sr and Bernice Wilderspin. He is survived by a daughter, Linda Susan (Robert) Kirkpatrick of Louisiana, a son, Richard Wilderspin of St. Charles, IL, a daughter Kathy (David) Brown of Buda, TX, a daughter, Kim Mikos of Elburn, IL, a daughter, Kristine Wilderspin-Gray of Sycamore, IL and seven grandchildren, Ashley (Anthony) Nicaj, Zachary (Amber) Wilderspin, Rebecca (Zac) Sagay, Evan (Emma) Mikos, Allie Mikos, Brock Gray and Christie Kirkpatrick and three great- grandchildren and a brother Dale (Diane) Wilderspin. He was preceded in death by his wife, Betty Lou Wilderspin and his brother Larry Wilderspin.
Frank grew up in St. Charles, IL and graduated from St. Charles High School in 1953 where he was involved in choir and track. He married the love of his life, Betty Lou in 1959. Frank was admired for his strong work ethic and had several career experiences including working at St. Charles Kitchens and being an entrepreneur. He co-owned a clothing store in Batavia and was the franchise owner of the local White Hen Pantry for a decade. In his retirement years, he also worked part-time as a driver for the Holmstead in Batavia. Frank liked to stay busy and always found a new project to work on!
Frank was unconditionally devoted to his family and friends. He was a loving husband who cherished and protected his wife Betty Lou during their 65 years of marriage. Frank was an amazing father who always made his kids feel supported and loved. He enjoyed being a baseball coach and never wanted to miss any of the activities that his kids or grandkids were involved in. Frank always showed up for the people in his life and loved his family fiercely!
Frank had a passion for the outdoors. He enjoyed camping and fishing and working outside in the yard. Frank was also known for his storytelling skills and was always eager to share fun memories of the past. He especially enjoyed making others laugh with his witty sense of humor. Frank also loved Chicago sports especially the Chicago Cubs and was a devoted diehard Cubs fan all of his life!
Frank will be forever remembered for all of the joy and love he brought to his family and friends! His legacy lives on in all of the lives he touched, the lessons he taught us, and the stories he told us!
A celebration and remembrance of his life will be held for the family at a date to be determined later.
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Sarah Martino from Joliet, IL
"I am so sorry for your loss. Grandpa Wilderspin was an amazing man and I so proud of his family. I feel grateful having known him. Prayers to your family."
Beth Morgano from DeKalb, IL
"Many heartfelt condolences to the family. Frank was one of a kind! He will be missed! He was always smiling and was a kind soul. Hugs to all of you!"
Michael P Smith from Sugar Grove, IL
"Kathy,I am sorry to have heard of the passing of your parents. Please know that I am keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.Dr. Smith"
Dan & Sue Baert from Cortland, IL
"So sorry to hear about your incredible losses. Praying for you."
Jane Sandberg from Geneva, IL
"Rick, Kathy, Kim, Kris and families - I am so sorry to hear about the passing of Uncle Frank and Aunt Betty. Their life together was such a wonderful love story. After being married for over 65 years, they had a bond not to be broken. I will always remember Aunt Betty's special laugh/giggle and Uncle Frank's ability to fix anything. I hope all of your wonderful memories help ease the pain and comfort you during this difficult time. With deepest sympathy."
Roger and Donna Ronzheimer from St Charles , IL
"My husband says Frank's dad married one of Roger's dads sisters..we are off Dean St and always meant to stop. Sure wish we would have !! So sorry for the loss.."
David Wyatt from Cortland , IL
"Rick, Kris and family. I am so very sorry to hear of your dad and mom’s passing! I had no idea. I always thought of Frank as wonderful person. Very thoughtful and caring of people! He will truly be missed!!!"