Obituaries
Jackson Lee Brown Miller
October 28, 2013 - August 2, 2024
- August 17, 2024 | 12 noon to 5:00 P.M.
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A Celebration of Jackson's Life
Fabyan Forest Preserve
1500 Crissey Ave (Rt. 25)
Geneva, Illinois 60134 -
Burial Location
Private
Hi everybody! My name is Jackson Lee Miller and I used to live in Geneva, Illinois. I was born almost eleven years ago on October 28, 2013 in DeKalb, Illinois. I was a big surprise for my mom, Sarah, when I decided to come into the world early. Weighing only 3 lbs 10 oz I spent a number of weeks in the NICU, with the distinction of being the biggest baby there! Mom and I made a good little family and she always took such good care of me. I never did all the things that other little ones did. I never was able to call her “mama” or ever take a step or give her a hug. But, according to everyone who met me, I had a smile that would light up a room. My teachers said that my smile brought joy into each day, as I reacted to the music and sounds in my classrooms. My sister Charlotte was always so loving to me, even when she threw stuffed flannel snowballs at me! Mom’s life partner Eric always talked to me when he was cooking, calling me his little cooking buddy. I was in the hospital a lot, getting poked and moved around and having some surgery, but even while having frequent blood draws, I laughed and smiled my way through it all. Over the last few years, my kidneys started to not work so well and that was the final thing that my body could not fight against. Last Friday morning, August 2, mom got me ready for the day, cleaned me up and gave me my meds. Comfortable, I lay back and listened to one of my favorite movies, because my eyes didn’t work either. I got sleepy and drifted off and left my room and my mom and my sister and this life behind. I don’t know how to tell you about what my life is like now, but I can run and jump and see everything and if you all could hear me, I’d tell you – and mom and Charlotte and Eric and my teachers and my bus driver and my grandparents – how much I loved them. You made my life as good as it could be, since my body was just not up to the task. You loved me even though I couldn’t hug you or say “I love you” or get into the troubles that little boys usually get into. Thank you for being my family. Forgive me for leaving you too early but I had another life ahead of me. Remember me and try not to cry too much. I’m flying free!
A Celebration of Life will take place Saturday, August 17th, 2024 12-5 P.M. at Fabyan Forest Preserve, 1500 Crissey Ave. (Rt. 25), Geneva, IL 60134. This will be a light-hearted affair, with a light picnic lunch provided.
Donation/flowers for his memorial may be sent to: Sarah Miller, 1021 Garden Ave, Geneva, IL 60134.
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Gennie Cunningham from Boise, ID
"Dear Sarah, Eric, and Charlotte, I am so very sorry for your loss. Your written tribute from Jackson’s perspective is beautiful! Although Jackson will be greatly missed, I believe he is free now of his body’s limitations and will be waiting for you with open arms to hug you when you’r reunited in the spirit world on the other side. My heart and prayers go out to you all. Love, Gennie"
Kisara (Bus Monitor) from Elgin, IL
"Dear Sarah, I am incredibly sorry for your loss. You raised such a sweet little boy and he will be dearly missed. Jackson’s shining personality will live on in our hearts. My heart goes out to you for the loss of your dear son. I hope your happy memories throughout all the years will help you through this difficult time. I send healing prayers and comforting hugs. I wish you all moments of peace and comfort as you remember someone who was so close to you. He put so much love into this world and touched so many lives in the very best way. I'm grateful to say I had the chance to know Jackson!!My condolences, Kisara (Bus Monitor)"
Jennifer (Dickinson) Beck from Sycamore, IL
"Oh sweet Jackson! How I remember that sweet smile! You were one of my first speech therapy clients and you are an inspiration to us all. Thank you for all the love you spread. You will be missed but never forgotten. ❤️"
Jeanne Danos from Geneva, IL
"Your son was a blessing to everyone who knew him. I am heartbroken at his passing, but find peace knowing he had such joy in his short life. My condolences to you all. Soar, sweet Jackson."
Sherry L Wood from DEKALB, IL
"It was my joy and honor to help watch over this sweet boy whenever Sarah needed my help in the first few years of his life. All of my friends had to listen to me talk about my moments spent with Jackson. He was the happiest little guy and his loss, so young is heartbreaking to all of us who were privileged to be even a small part of his life. My heart is breaking for Sarah, Charlotte, Eric and all of the family."
Karyn from Dekalb, IL
"My sweet Jackman, as I always called him. I was one of his very first teachers when he was a tiny baby. We had him with us for about 3 years. He was such a blessing to us all. His smile was the absolute best. He will forever live in my heart. Fly high sweet boy. Love,Hugs and Prayers to you Sarah and family!"
Sara zukowski from Murfreesboro , TN
"I had the pleasure of meeting Jackson when I worked with him in preschool in Geneva, ill. His smile always warmed my heart - I am praying for his Momma and family — I know his bright light is shining upon us. Rest in peace sweet boy —"
Lisa Palese from Geneva, IL
"As a member of the Mid-Valley Team where Jackson went to school, I have had the pleasure of knowing and loving Jackson for 5 years- including this summer at summer school. Sarah's heartfelt words describe our little Jackson perfectly. He was a little boy where sometimes you would forget that he couldn't speak or hug because his interactions and feelings were so evident- he made each of us feel as if we were the most important person in the room. His eyes and his smile would light up so big- it was remarkable. While I can't even imagine being in our ABLE classroom without Jackson, my heart is happy knowing he is laughing, running, and playing and no longer in any distress. We love you, Jackson, and we will be here to support your family as long as they need us!"
Kathleen Tomasino from Carpentersville, IL
"His smile will continue to light up my life and bring me joy."
Christa Curran from Colorado Springs, CO
"Sarah, I am so sorry for your loss…….. I know we haven’t been close for a very long time, but I can’t imagine what you are going through. You are an amazing mom and he is so lucky to have you! I will pray for you and your family."
Charlotte Martin from Maple park, IL
"I had the honor of being a part of your son's classroom last year. He was a great kid and was a sweet gentle kid he will be missed and he was loved."
Beth Gordon from Aurora, IL
"My little buddy Jackson! I thank you for allowing me to help you and your mommy. I hope you get to all the things now and shine bright! To your family: my deepest sympathies and hugs. Jackson had a wonderful life because of you!"