Obituaries

Claudia Richards from 1008 Riviera Drive, IL

"Dear Paula and Ed:My deepest sympathy in your loss of your dear son, Alex.Paula: I fondly remember our conversations about Alex during his years @ U of I. The enjoyment you had visiting him at college.I big hug to you both. I am out of town and unable to attend the services. I will hold you close as you remember your son this week.Your tennis buddy, Claudia Richards"

Robert Cornman from Winfield, IL

"Hey guys it's Bob. I am so sorry for your loss really kind of lost for words cuz of the way it happened I'm so sorry I'll keep the two of you in my prayers and I will see you at the service God bless both you"

Lisa M Marshall from Chicago, IL

"I will always have amazing memories of growing up with my sweet cousin. Alex was beautiful inside and out and his creativity and passion for art and music is something I really admired. I am comforted to know that he is with our Grandma Maria now - she adored him as her special little boy among granddaughters. Alex, we miss you and love you so much."

Erin Murphy from Tempe , AZ

"I knew Alex from our time together at St. Charles North and then at U of I. He was an incredibly smart and thoughtful person. We kept in touch through the years and I always appreciated talking to him about the ways we perceive and move through the world. I am so sorry for your loss."

Michelle Monahan from Elmwood Park, IL

"Alex, we will always love and miss you. I'll cherish our time growing up together forever and never forget all us cousins playing together at the family picnics, holidays and celebrations. Uncle Ed and Aunt Paula, I'm so sorry for this incredible loss. I hope the the good memories bring you peace."

Laura Anne Richardson from Oak Grove, MO

"I am so heartbroken for the loss of my nephew Alex. He was such a wonderful man who will be deeply missed by all of our family. He was taken from us way too soon, but I'm sure God had his reasons. He will forever remain in our hearts ❤️ Paula, Ed and Julie, you are in my thoughts and prayers🙏♥️😢 Rest in Peace Alex🙏❤️✝️"

Jamie Heitzman from Aurora, IL

"Alex was so special to our family from the day he was born. He was so loved and will be missed beyond measure."

Craig Meister from Portland, OR

"Paula, Ed, and family I am sending my love in this difficult time. Alex was an incredible friend, tennis partner, musician, and so much more. Getting to know Alex while growing up we became fast friends and found any time we could to catch up as we journeyed through college and into life. I wish I could be there in person to give you my deepest support, but I'm sending my love strongly from afar. Alex will always hold a special place in my heart. -Craig"

Carol from Garruson, IL

"The loss of this beautiful young man is almost too much to bear. Alexander was a kind and gentle soul with a brilliant mind. You will be missed by all those who loved you, but you will NEVER be forgotten. Until we meet again Alex, rest in the arms of Jesus. Love, Aunt Carol Continued prayers and hugs to you Paula and Ed. 🙏🙏🙏"

Jaxson Kelsey Porter from Lenexa , KS

"Dear Alex, I will miss you. even though we didn’t get to spend much time together, I will forever cherish the times we talked . I really wish we had the chance to talk about guitars and play together. Love you, Jaxson. You’re forever in my heart."

Carol Garrison from Montgomery, IL

"The loss of Alexander has brought more pain that I thought was possible. He was a kind and gentle soul with a brilliant mind. Alex I will miss you every day and I will never forget you. Until we meet again, rest in peace. Continued prayers and hugs Paula, Ed, and Julie"

Patricia Race from Earlville , IL

"Devastated over the loss of my sweet nephew Alex. There is a brighter star in Heaven shining down on us now. Hugs and prayers to Paula, Ed and Julie 🙏. Forever in our hearts."

Julie Lynn Kelsey-Fish from Elgin, IL

"I can still hear Alex's voice. "Hey Juj". He was "buddy" to me. Anyway, Alex was the easiest brother, so chill, always up for food, a game, music, a show, just anything. He attended any rescue event I invited him to, and the dogs were just gaga over him. They literally flirted with him to the point of wagging tails and kisses. He was so handsome, and he was genuinely so kind to everyone. I was so immensely grateful for him. He was everything to me from the day he was born.We really knew each other well and gifted things to each other in ways that you could see we were related. I bought him things related to his art, music and love for plants. He bought me jewelry, Elvis memorabilia, American Indian related items and artifacts from his travels. I don't think I'll ever miss anything more in my life than his company. I was very blessed to have him for the time I did. He was my favorite human and a beautiful soul.Alex: You were The Coffee in my Cup, The Flap in my Jack, The Buzz to my Lightyear, The Jelly in my Bean, The Zig in my Zag, The Cheese in my Whiz, The Pow in my Wow, The Fortune in my Cookie, The Tennis in my Ball, The Fruit in my Loops, The Bees in my Knees, The Grand in my Piano, The Hop in my Pop, The Rock in my Roll, You were the Lucky in my Charms and The Fox in my Trot.Love you To Infinity and Beyond Buddy...keep all the dogs company 'til I see you again...xoxoxoxoxo Juj"

Emily Becker from Eudora, KS

"Aunt Paula and Uncle Ed, We are sending you our love and continued prayers. There are special people in our lives that never leave us even after they are gone. I will always cherish the childhood memories that I have with Alex and will remember his sweet smile and kind soul. Alex, we will miss you always. Rest in peace"

Renee kelsey from desoto, KS

"Dear Paula Ed and JulieMy heart breaks for you all ! Alex was so kind and handsome and I know that God has him and he's probably playing his guitar. He was such a blessing to be around. I Will always cherish how he hugged me and helped me through my husband John passing Love you all so much! Aunt Renee"

Barb Kelsey, Deb Porter from Lenexa , KS

"Ed. Paula, and Julie you have our love and prayers. Words can not express our feelings of loss for Alex. We are blessed to be his Aunts, and cherish every moment and memory we shared. God has him in his arms, and we will keep him in our hearts. He will be forever loved and missed. Aunt Barb & Aunt Deb"

Kevin & Lisa Montgomery from Olathe, KS

"Ed, Paula and Julie, we are deeply saddened by the loss of Alex. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May the memories you have bring you comfort and peace. He will always be remembered and loved for the sweet and wonderful person that he was. Please know that we are here for you in any way that you may need. Sending our heartfelt condolences. We love you!!!"

Scott, Debbie, Sam and Sarah from Parker, CO

"Paula and Ed, We are so broken hearted over the loss of Alex. We know there is nothing we can say or do to take away your pain. Please know we Love and Miss him. He will be forever in our thoughts and Prayers"

Ronda & Joe Morgison from Lawrence , KS

"Paula, Ed and Julie—We are so sorry to hear of Alex’s passing. Each of you are in our hearts and prayers. Even though we did not know Alex, he sounded like a great guy with a heart of gold. Please know we will continue to keep you all in our thoughts and prayers. Sending you many hugs. Love, Ronda & Joe"

Wes & Denise Mathis from Independence , MO

"Ed, Paul and Julie, We are so sorry to hear of the loss of Alex. Out hearts are breaking for you. Our thoughts, prayers and love are with all of you for peace and comfort during this difficult time. Alex will forever be in your hearts, know God has him in his hands."

Lynda Bonner from Gulf Breeze, FL

"Dear Enskat Family, I am so upset to hear about Alex's passing. Paula, I'm not sure if you remember me but I lived in Tyrone, GA near you. My boys, Seth and Joe, hung out with Alex, Blake and Taylor Allen. They had such fun together. I know the pain right now for y'all is unbearable. I can hardly get past it and I haven't seen your family since our GA days. I hope you can find some comfort in thinking about the wonderful times and your amazing son. With love from the Bonner family."

Konnie Kosek from Fort Collins, CO

"Dear Paula and Family, So sorry to hear about the sudden and tragic loss of your son, Alex. i remember you sharing stories about him when we were playing tennis together. I am too far away to attend his services, but know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers as you grieve his passing. May God give you strength and bless you. Konnie Kosek"