Obituaries

Kathy and Bob Healy from Aurora, IL

"We are so sorry for your loss, Michael, Ryan and Thomas. Elaine welcomed us warmly when we were new Marmion parents. She was always inviting and kind. A sweet soul who always had a smile on her face. Rest in peace, Elaine. We will be joining in the streaming of her funeral mass."

Joan Kilanowski from Irving, TX

"What a full life Elaine had, and I was a lucky recipient to share some of her overwhelming love and thoughtfulness. Our first of life's encounters that we discovered we shared, was in 1st Grade. We were actually part of the flock of lambs in the school's Christmas play. We then caught up again in high school and shared the excitement of new boyfriends, social activities and the rest of teenagers' angsts and antics. But, we survived and continued exploring life in college and even shared our first "real grown-up apartment" with her other close friends, Patti and Cathy. So many wonderful memories in a lifetime. A toast to Elaine with wine and Kirshbaum's cake! Our favorite sugar overload.I know God called you home because He has a big project he'd like you to head up. You were always an angel on earth. You will be missed, my dear friend, but NEVER forgotten."

Kerry Shay from Aurora, IL

"Your family has my very deepest sympathy for the loss of dear Elaine. Her friendship was a true blessing as Thomas and my Michael went through Marmion together. Our time in our prayers group was also a treasure. She was a woman who made a difference in the lives of others. We are blessed to have had her in our lives. May she rest in peace and may your family take comfort in the memories and love shared by family and friends. You remain in my prayers."

Cara Schafer from St. Charles, IL

"I am so sorry to hear about Elaine. She was a kind and genuine person with the best laugh.I had the honor of meeting Elaine when she became my son, Jimmy’s, tutor 2 years ago. She was such a blessing to Jimmy and our family during a difficult time. Jimmy and Elaine quickly bonded. They shared the love of Go Fish and played after almost every session. She brought so much joy to Jimmy, even on some of the darkest days. I will be forever grateful and never forget her.I send my condolences and prayers to her family. She talked about you often and shared some great (and funny) stories with Jimmy and I. The love she had for all of you was so touching. I have no doubt in my mind that she and Jimmy are up in Heaven right now, playing a game of Go Fish."

Cara Schafer from St. Charles, IL

"I am so sad to hear about Elaine. She was a kind and genuine person with the best laugh.I had the honor of meeting Elaine when she became my son, Jimmy’s, tutor 2 years ago. She was such a blessing to Jimmy and our family during a difficult time. Jimmy and Elaine quickly bonded. They shared the love of Go Fish and played after almost every session. She brought so much joy to Jimmy, even on some of the darkest days. I will be forever grateful and never forget her.I send my condolences and prayers to all of her family. She talked about you often and shared some great (and funny) stories with Jimmy and I. The love she had for all of you was so touching. I have no doubt in my mind that she and Jimmy are up in Heaven right now, playing a game of Go Fish."

Joyce Paliganoff from St. Charles, IL

"I am so surprised and sorry to hear this news, you are all in my prayers. Elaine and I met during a CRHP retreat at St. John Neumann and she was immediately one of my favorite new friends. Always so cheerful, upbeat and kind she lit up the room. She was very inspirational and I could tell her faith meant everything to her. I will miss seeing her in church & catching up! She is in the hands of the Lord now and I can only imagine what she's seeing!!!"

Dana Pond from Saint Charles , IL

"My deepest sympathies to the Delves family on the loss of Elaine. I have many wonderful memories of spending time with Elaine and Michael at the HGC statue parties. Elaine was always funny, warm and caring. I will be forever grateful for the kindness Elaine showed my mom Donna and myself when we moved into the neighborhood. May Elaine Rest In Peace after a life well-lived."

Kyle and Rebecca Capen from Elgin, IL

"Our family will always feel so much gratitude for Elaine. It was her thoughtful matchmaking that brought us together in the first place. Our memories of her will always be of her warmth, kindness, and genuine caring. We send our heartfelt condolences to Michael, Ryan, Thomas, and all those who loved her. Without a doubt she is being celebrated in heaven for the wonderful woman she was here on earth."

Bill and Mary Ann Butzke from Batavia, IL

"We are so saddened by your loss of dear Elaine. She truly shined with happiness and love for her wonderful family! We so miss the Marmion swim days and the fun Elaine brought. We pray that your cherished memories help ease some of the pain of missing her-she was a true gem!"

Robert and Wendy Napolitano from Downers Grove , IL

"Our whole family was saddened upon notice of the Elaine’s passing. She will always be remembered by us as one of the brightest souls that we had the honor to have met. One of our fondest memories is of our weekend with the Delves’s in Door County. Elaine was one of a kind, one of Gods best creations. We will miss her and we pray that God will help Michael, Ryan, Thomas, and their families through this sorrowful time. May he give you peace and strength to carry on."

Janet and Tom Scaliatine from Lombard, IL

"We are so saddened to hear about Elaine’s passing. We remember her smile, her laughter, her welcoming ways, her amazing sense of right and wrong. She such a good friend all those years of Ryall swimming and a great travel companion and roomie on our swim meet trips. Our deepest condolences, Michael, Ryan, and Thomas (Tommy)."

Wayne & Karen Sanchez from Batavia , IL

"We are all sadden by the passing of Elaine. We have watched the Delves become the Family that they are with great admiration and there is no doubt she will be missed but we see her influence in both Ryan and Thomas and it’s that she will always be with us. We pray for you all during this time of sorrow."

Clive and Mandy Trueman from LEEDS, AK

"LEEDS UNITED KINGDOMWe send our deepest sympathies to Mike,Ryan,Thomas and families at their sad loss of Elaine. When Mike first introduced me to Elaine so many years ago it was clear she was special and a great relationship was developing. She had a joy for conversation and a great memory for the keynotes to recall to make people feel special.Something which always impressed me. A life that contained so much to celebrate and Yes,was a wondrous story."

Libby Scanlan from Sugar Grove, IL

"We were so saddened to hear about Elaine's passing. She was such a bright light-the world was a better place because she was on it. Our deepest sympathies to all of the Delves family."

Clive and Mandy Trueman from Leeds, United Kingdom, AK

"Clive and Mandy Trueman,LEEDS UNITED KINGDOM. We send our deepest sympathies to Mike,Ryan,Thomas and families for their loss of Elaine. When Mike first introduced me to Elaine so many years ago it was clear she was special and a great relationship was developing. She had a joy for conversation and a great memory for those keynotes to recall to make people feel special.Something which always impressed me. A life that contained so much to celebrate and Yes a wondrous story.Thank you and Regards Clive Trueman"

Glen Keen & Family from Elburn, IL

"So very sorry for the loss of Elaine. Her friendly nature and open heartedness was a gift to all and will be missed. I remember the first time we met her on the paddle wheel boat. Her and Julie both being teachers hit it off, it was so nice how she made us both feel welcomed in. Our thoughts are with Michael and his family."

Gniatczyk Family from Glen Ellyn, IL

"We are saddened to hear about Elaine. We will always remember her loving presence and smile that brightened everyone's day. She was an inspiration and important figure in our swimming community. Someone so special can never be forgotten. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time."

Ted Perez from Geneva, IL

"We spent 13 years as Elaine and Michael's HGC neighbor's. Elaine was always very welcoming and fun to be around. Her lively and loving spirit will live forever in the HGC family which she always made us feel a part of. Our thoughts and prayers to Michael and family."

Christine O'Reilly from South Elgin, IL

"I met this lady at a CRHP retreat many years ago and she was someone that I would seek out. She had a strong faith, loved to laugh, and always had a smile for everyone. She will be missed, but still very loved by those she left behind."

Vicki Tuch from Woodridge, IL

"Elaine and I worked together years ago at St. Scholastica School in Woodridge. She was such a vibrant soul...we hit it off immediately! My condolences to her family, you are in my prayers."

Melinda Ramsden from Elburn, IL

"I am so deeply shocked and saddened to hear of the passing of Elaine. I had the pleasure of working with Elaine in the customer service department at Von Maur. We had the best time together. She spoke with such love of her family; I cannot imagine your sadness. May the Delves Family be surrounded with God's love."

Julie Hepfer from St. Charles, IL

"I met Elaine many years ago when we were substituting in d303 and we saw each other frequently at church. Elaine was gifted with the ability to make you feel like you were the most important person in the room. I will miss her laugh, her genuine smile and wonderful stories. My thoughts and prayers are with your family."

Nora Smetak from St. Charles, IL

"I am so deeply saddened and shocked to hear of the passing of my dear friend, Elaine. I worked with Elaine at D303, she was a joy to be with and a loving soul. Elaine always worked her magic with the kiddos and made them feel special. She was a dear friend to all! Elaine you will be missed. My prayers are with the Delves Family."