Obituaries
Robert A. Graham
September 3, 1943 - May 24, 2019


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VISITATION
June 8, 2019 | 9-11:30 A.M. -
Congregational United Church of Christ
40W451 Fox Mill Blvd
St. Charles, Illinois - Memorial Service
- June 8, 2019 | 11:30 A.M.
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Congregational United Church of Christ
40W451 Fox Mill Blvd
St. Charles, Illinois -
Burial Location
Private-Congregational United Church of Christ Memorial Garden
Robert A. Graham, age 75, of St. Charles passed away Friday, May 24, 2019 at Delnor Hospital in Geneva.
He was born September 3, 1943 in Chicago, Illinois to Malcolm and Evelyn Graham.
Bob grew up in Itasca, IL, went to Lake Park High School, and then graduated from N.I.U with both his Bachelor and Master’s degrees in Education & Administration. While at Northern he was a member of the Sigma Pi fraternity, and met the love of his life Anne. They were married on June 24, 1967.
In 1966 he was hired by School District 303 to be a 5th grade teacher at Munhall School. Three years later he became the principal at Wasco Elementary School for the next 20 years. This school truly became a second family during those years. In 1988 he was the first principal at Ferson Creek Elementary School and then in 1989 became the Assistant Superintendent for Personnel for District 303, until his retirement in 2000. That same year the new elementary school was named Bell-Graham in honor of him, Charlie Bell and Ken Graham.
Bob was also instrumental in the development and operations of St.Charles Boys Baseball for over 20 years, beginning in the summer of 1968. He was a very active and dedicated member of the Congregational United Church of Christ in St. Charles for almost 50 years, where he will be missed greatly.
Bob loved all of his “families”, his Chicago sports teams especially the Cubs, and his beloved dog Winnie.
He is survived by his wife of 51 years, Anne, two children, Jeff Graham and Mindy Graham, a sister, Alice (Jerry) Meyer and his twin brother, Kenneth (Debby) Graham, his nephews and nieces, Tom Meyer, Jan (Rob) Costello, Ken Meyer, Jen (Jason) Gandy, Scott Graham and special great nieces and nephews.
He was preceded in death by his parents.
Memorial service will be held 11:30 A.M., Saturday, June 8th at the Congregational United Church of Christ, 40W451 Fox Mill Blvd, St. Charles. Interment will be private in the church memorial garden. Memorial visitation will be Saturday from 9-11:30 A.M. at the church. In lieu of flower, contributions may be made to the Congregational United Church of Christ, 40W451 Fox Mill Blvd, St. Charles, Illinois 60175 or to the American Cancer Society, 143 South First Street, Batavia, Illinois 60510.
Condolences
Kurt & Peg Anderson from Fort Myers, FL
"Our condolences for an always enthusiastic colleague."
Julie VanDeVeire from Geneva, IL
"Very sad to learn of the passing of Mr Graham. Our principal at Wasco until 5th grade then onto 6th grade at Shelby where Mr Ken Graham (also a wonderful teacher), was my teacher. I will never forget your influence on my life and countless others who were lucky to have you touch their lives. RIP, sir. And Thank you."
Steve Schulze from St. Charles, IL
"A truly great man who was loved by many. He was positive, uplifting, warm, and always available to chat. The best neighbor you could ever hope for, and great leader in the community. Prayers for Anne, Jeff, Mindy and all family, he lives on in you."
Geri Yaccino from Elburn, IL
"Bob was a compassionate man who brought a high level of professionalism to his position of assistant superintendent. I will always remember his smile."
Rose Quaresima from Hollywood, AL
"I remember Bob well from when my children, Brent and Ann Haggerty, attended Wasco School in the late '70's and early/mid '80's. I was always eager to volunteer at the school and, thus, was honored to interact often with Bob. May he eternally rest in the peace, love, and joy of the Lord for a life well-spent with important purposes of his family life and his importance in the lives of so many children and their families throughout the years. I send blessings and prayers to Anne and to Mindy and Jeff (my children knew them) during this arduous bereavement of the loss of husband and father."
Wilma Van Arragon from Batavia , IL
"Bob was a kind, compassionate man. I loved working with him. He will be missed. He is leaving wonderful memories for all who knew him."
Sally Scott from St. Charles, IL
"So saddened to hear the news of Bob's passing. I will always remember his smile and jovial disposition. My prayers are with all of you during this difficult time."
Lynn Chassee from St. Charles, IL
"Bob was a wonderful principal at Wasco School. Both my children loved him. He was a kind and caring man who will truly be missed. I also loved his consideration of the children I worked with in his building."
Jeffrey Leavey from Trinity , FL
"I was blessed to have known and worked with Bob. He will always be in my prayers"
Jeffrey Leavey from Trinity , FL
"I was very blessed to have known Bob. He and his family are in my prayers."
Laura Kerlagon from Prosper, TX
"I am so saddened to hear the news of Mr. Graham’s passing. Although I only had him as my principal for the one year he was at Ferson Creek, he was my absolute favorite of all time. A caring, warm-hearted man with a great sense of humor. I fell off playground equipment that year and he waited with me until the ambulance came and then went to the hospital to check on me later that afternoon. I have thought of him so many times over the years and I’m sure he made that same impact on hundreds of other students as well. Rest In Peace Mr. Graham, you will be deeply missed."
Susan Cira from St. Charles, IL
"Bob was the principal at Wasco when both of my kids went there in the 80's & early 90's. He always knew all the parents by name & who they "belonged to". I would see him at church but never spoke with him. I should have. He was very special to the kids."
Edward Kust from Cantonment, FL
"Bob was special and will be missed by many including the brothers of Sigma Pi!"
Mary Jane and Ken McFee from Sugar Grove, IL
"So sorry for your great loss. We know Bob was loved by his family, his church and his community."
Jim Gaffney from St. Charles, IL
"My deepest condolence's to Anne & the whole Graham family. The community, along w/the school district has lost a great mentor & a great friend. To my friend Bob, Rest in Peace, see you soon."
Scott McCullagh from Batavia, IL
"Bob was one of the kindest, fairest men I've ever known. His career in the St. Charles CUSD #303 is legendary and he had great integrity as a man, a father, a Christian, and an educator. Please accept my heartfelt condolences and fond memories."